Shame Pattern Demonstration (page 6)

Steve: Yeah. Often the person over here, everyone is looking at them and laughing, or criticizing, or doing whatever they are doing. And typically in the resource one, it’s just like normal, you know, where people are looking at each other, or at the wall, or at whatever is going on. OK?

Man: If you were going to deal with that content distortion, what would you do with it?

Steve: Just say, “Make yourself bigger,” or “Make them smaller.” Make yourself bigger, make the other people smaller, until they are appropriate, realistic. You just tell them to do it. I’ve never had any problem with it yet. Just tell them to do it and they go, “Yes, sir!” and they go ahead and do it.

Woman: Just, you know, they were— I guess they were bigger because I did that when you just said that, and it opened out the frame (laughs) enough to where it’s not nearly as panicky as it was.

Steve: OK, so they were probably a little bigger. (Woman: Yeah.) So, here’s a nice example. I didn’t even tell her to do it, and she did it. You said it opened out the frame. Did it actually make it larger?

Woman: Yeah, and it—

Steve: And is it less impactful?

Woman: Yes, because it made it square all of a sudden.

Steve: It made it square?

Woman: It’s not oval anymore.

Steve: OK. Now, the next thing we want to do is map across, and usually the easiest thing to do is to change location. So take this picture and move it out to that location (on the right), and find out what else changes at the same time. It’s already got a square frame over here, right? And as it goes over there, does it brighten up a little?

Woman: OK. The... ah... yeah. It brightens up, and all of a sudden the sound goes from cackling to more like a—

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