Introduction 1
How a self-concept that is aligned with values results in self-esteem.
Why a good self-concept is a fundamental key to your success in life.
The essential criteria that make your self-concept work well.
Discover and improve the unique structure of your self-concept.
Make sure your self-concept functions well all the time.
Enriching and enhancing who you are, and what you can do.
Your mistakes can make your self-concept stronger and more accurate.
Using mistakes to become even more of who you want to be.
Create an entirely new desired quality or attitude for yourself.
Make a weak quality into a strong basis for who you want to be.
Thinking of who you are not can be destructive, and how to change it.
Change a negative attitude into the positive one that you want.
How to create inner boundaries that protect you more effectively.
How to be intimate, while retaining a strong sense of yourself.
Closing 254
Appendix: Perspective Patterns 261
About the Author 274
References 276
Index 278